You can’t be wrong 🙅🏾‍♀️ and strong 💪🏾at the same time😎

**You can’t be wrong and strong at the same time – Laverne Mcinnis

When I heard this…I was like right on. But it also sparked…me looking at myself and thinking…

I’ve been wrong…many times and I tried to appear strong. In my actions, my thought processes, and my mindset. I began to dig deeper in myself to change the long-term mindsets I had. 

One mindset that got me nowhere was constantly telling myself… I know…I was very steadfast on being right all the time …I was wrong most of the time. Because I didn’t take the time to gain knowledge in that particular area. Or I used what someone told me and that’s what framed my thought process. 

It’s when someone says they tried a particular weight loss program…but they didn’t follow through with the program. Finally they conclude that it doesn’t work…so they tell 10 of their Friends it didn’t work. And now they Are feeling justified in their beliefs because of the reaction of others. So now you believe them. And miss your blessing. 

See I’ve done this even at a small scale. Someone says oh don’t go to that movie…it’s horrible. How do they know…I actually may enjoy it. But we shape our perceptions on what others put on us. 

Another example is in business. Someone may say in an MLM you can’t make money. Well, maybe it’s because they didn’t follow the systems they had in place for you TO make the money. But you disregarded it …and quit, saying it doesn’t work…but in reality it’s YOU that didn’t work. You didn’t implement the systems to make the money. So now…you are strongly feeling that you don’t make money in those businesses and you’re still broke working your 9-5 capped out on the hourly wage. 

You can’t be wrong and strong…at the same time. You must be willing to see and do something different.

Gain new knowledge. Maybe what you know…is not relevant for this time…we’re in 2022. And if you don’t have a business… something you can’t get fired from. You’ve missed what we learned in 2020 ✌🏾 ❤ when folks lost their jobs due to business needs and world events. 

Now your mindset has worked against you … because you won’t allow yourself the space to venture off and do something DIFFERENT. 

Stop playing games and get a new perspective and gain new knowledge to get completely free here in 2022.

The year where you can’t be wrong and strong at the same time. 

**Shout out to Laverne Mcinnis of Vernes Junk Closet on YouTube where she shares an encouraging word every afternoon EST!! This is where this blog idea came from.